Lawyer says that it would be something that could be put in but in all reality very difficult/impossible to enforce. Lawyer says that usually a parent in an affair (a ecspecialy a female) would not want to hurt the kid and would realize how damaging that something like this would be!!#@#@!

So I will have to come up with another way--not sure what since appealing to reason and law does not work.

And you are correct G (as usual) at this point it does not matter. I read others posts on here and relate at least in feelings to the people on here with little ones and it just breaks me up inside that my Son will not grow up with me there all of the time. I have not gotten my head around that yet.

And the "it's my fault" routine has worn thin real quick. It worked about 6 months ago when I thought that I was the messed up one. Not now. I contributed to problems sure but W ended this b/c of her choices not mine

H: 30
W: 31
S: 2
T/M: 6/4
D Final 4-5-10

Bomb: June 09
Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?