But then again, he went away this weekend to play hockey. Text me when he got there. Called me the following morning for ten minutes. Text me the following morning. And then text me on the way home. Got home late, climbed into bed. I was sleeping but no kiss hello, no cuddle, nothing. Sorry but when a H and W have been apart for three days, would it not be normal to climb into bed and wrap your arms around your W? We woke up this morning and no hug, no kiss, nothing. I don't think he loves me.
The question is...do I want to live witha man that doesn't love me forever, or be lonely and single. Which is worse?
Britt,
Only you can decide which is worse for YOU. From my observation spot, however, you seem horribly sad and miserable, and that makes US sad. This clearly isn't working for you.
I have learned that we teach people -- over time -- how to treat us. Your husband has learned that he can do this, and -- for the most part -- you will be okay with it. Only you can decide when that is no longer "okay," and decide to stand up for yourself.
Hugs,
Puppy
Puppy am I allowed to give you 4 whistles? People should read this, put it on a post it and glue it on to their forehead so that they read it everytime they look in a mirror.
Britt, you've no doubt read the stories from alot of men on this site dealing with WAW's, how those women treat those men and yet these men still want to be with their wives, call it a challenge, call it wanting what you don't have, call it whatever you like but start employing that mentality because it works.
