flowmom,
Please feel free to highjack my thred anytime. I know our sitch are very similar, so any advice given to either of us will help both of us.

OP,
Thanks for the 2x4's they do help to calm my emotions down, and try to think more clearly.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10