Crikey H4L thats quite a list bigger than I expected so you have been keeping some 180s secret squirrel lol!
Honestly you are so right on the nail about taking care of ourselves takes the pressure of our H's, I didnt realise how selfish (not intentionally) my behaviour must have been, all that pressure on him (even if he/we didnt realise it). For me my H bottled it and went MIA internally, for yours he let rip and gave you both barrels, which ever way round it was its so much nicer to have a conversation about things and support and validate each other. Also my panic ate into so much, it eroded my confidence in my own capabilites, today my mate thought he couldnt see my reversing lights on after getting my car back from garage, normally panic would have ensued and H would have been held responsible for fixing it, NO MORE, I got my girlfriend at work to go round and check all the lights were working and she also taught me something about antifreeze I didnt realise.. I came away feeling proud of myself but all the more as its one more worry to take off H's back! Girl Power thats what we need to reclaim lol!
H4L you need to a treat to celebrate that list you have done good girl be proud and hold your head high and wiggle those hips in a sexy manner
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
