Moving on with my life!

[K4D]

Yes..much better! Like I said I tend to get down/depressed when I am on overload mentally and physically.

I guess we all have those days from time to time. I know I will feel much better once I have a job lined up.

Exh just sent a text saying he has to work late and most likely will not make his visit today. Glad he sent that ahead of time.

I am glad he is being courteous by letting you know ahead of time.

Kevin

[Startingover2]

Wow...MGF is crazy!

I just went to the dentist and was dropping baby off with a gf that lives up the street from exh. I was making a left turn onto his street and mgf passed me going the other way. She made a U turn right in the middle of the highway and drove so fast to catch up with me within seconds! I drove by where exh lived and on to my friends. She turned around as I pulled in my friends driveway just short of where I was. She was making sure I wasn't going to exh's! How scary! She is not stable and does she seriously think I am just going to disappear off the planet? She stared at me as she was turning around.

My friends told me to document and tell exh what happened as it was no mistake!

"Hey..baby and I were on our way to my friends who live up the street from you and as i was turning left onto your street MGF passed me going the other way, must have seen me, and flipped a U turn right in the middle of the road and right in front of a friend i was on the phone with. She then followed us up your street I guess to make sure I wasn't at your house. Seriously exh?! Its very immature and rather unsettling for baby and I to have her following us this way. I am not trying to cause problems here. We have a daughter and we need to get along for her sake. I just thought you should be aware of what was happening. Thank you."

I also emailed my attorney back about something unrelated and told him what happened. He also thought I needed to document this with exh either via text or email as if MGF is this crazy a restraining order may be needed.

Wow!

[Drew]

Speaking only for myself, I try to avoid getting sucked into unnecessary drama.

[K4D]

Ok, so it sounds like you already sent the email to your exh. That is kind of scary that MGF did that. I'm not sure what she thought she would be able to do if you were to see exh. But yes, this definitely needs to be addressed. She doesn't need to be following you around especially if you have baby with you.

If she does it again, it might be worth looking at a restraining order on her.

Kevin

[Startingover2]

Speaking only for myself, I try to avoid getting sucked into unnecessary drama.

I honestly think this is the first of many things she will try and I needed to have some sort of documentation that she is unstable. She has threatened me via text already.

Exh sent a text back: Ok thank you and I do agree with you!

Not sure what he is agreeing on...whether MGF is crazy and will make his life hell or if he agrees we need to get along for baby! LOL

Like my atty said...all of this does not make him look good in a judges eyes.

[Drew]

If she does it again, it might be worth looking at a restraining order on her.

Kevin

So what exactly would she file a restraining order on? Making illegal U-turns?

Deescalate, not escalate.

[K4D]

So what exactly would she file a restraining order on? Making illegal U-turns?

stalking.

Kevin

[Drew]

Stalking?

[K4D]

She made a U turn right in the middle of the highway and drove so fast to catch up with me within seconds! I drove by where exh lived and on to my friends. She turned around as I pulled in my friends driveway just short of where I was. She was making sure I wasn't going to exh's!

You don't think this is some form of stalking if it continues?

Kevin

[Drew]

K4D,

Stalking, no.

High-schoolish, yes.

Worthy of being documented, yes.

Grounds for a restraining order, no.


SO2,

Ignore her, as long as you feel she's not being a danger to you or baby. The more you acknowledge her actions, the more you will feed her childishness.