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No kerry, "garis" how we call him, is loyal and very very sweet!!!

And I would think we are ALL married to the same guy if I wasnt living over here...
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Eeyeore is cute! But he does need a hug...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Yep, pretty accurate...but instead of saying "Oh bother" like Eeyore, I just got this text out of the blue:

"I just don't know how I let my life turn into such a complete and f@cking total disaster"

Is it wrong that I actually like this? Well, at least the part where he said HE let his life turn out like sh!t. Instead of blaming me and the world...

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Obviously the F@cking is just the tip of his iceberg!

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LOL BBJ I ask myself the same thing. When SG starts complaining to me about how horrible his life is, and how unhappy he is, a part of me snickers...muhahahahahaha. I figure I had to go through my misery and turnabout is fair play...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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((((((BobbiJo))))))

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"I just don't know how I let my life turn into such a complete and f@cking total disaster"

Perhaps, Dan, you made a series of selfish, disrespectful, pig-headed decisions. Choices. You didn't let your life turn into a disaster, you decided to turn it into a disaster. Through your own choices and actions.

Careful, BobbiJo. Remember, he is a master manipulator. I feel like he is trying to pull you back in to the drama, trying to get you to let him off the hook. You've been down that road so often that it's impassable! Detach!

Seeing as that message didn't concern the kids, and didn't even have a question mark in it, I think it's safe to ignore!

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Bbj,
I HATE what Dan is doing to you. This is no fair play. I hope you recognise that.
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Tell Dan there is a tshirt for him here:

http://www.zazzle.com/f_k_my_life_tshirt-235188403936115929

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Hey I want one of those!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Jeff--I know, I have heard all of this before and nothing changes.

Kalni--You are right, it isn't fair! He communicates only when HE has something to communicate. If I had done the same I know he would NOT reply...

Lola--Yep, you reap what you sow! And I agree with Jeff, he didn't LET it happen, he was an active participant in the utter destruction of his life.

Kerry--Love the TShirt. So appropriate!

The irony that is NOT lost on me is that he reiterates time and again that he cannot open up to any woman, or person, really. That he can't trust or rely on anywone.

Ummm....if you don't want a relationship with a woman, or want to rely on or lean on anyone, then why do you always wind up sharing things with me when you feel your lowest????


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