Ring On or Ring Off????

[ddstartingover]

Oh, no----I've already responded...ummmm.....poorly, or at least in an non-DB appropriate way.

I guess I posted it because................I don't know. To have on record what a cold and impersonal email asking for divorce from a spouse of over 20 years looks like.

I guess if anyone wants to read it and tell me how wrong I am-----that this is a very sane thing for someone to do----I'll accept it. Or, if someone wants to chime in and tell me this is obviously written by a very rational, thoughtful person ---someone not in MLC and it's time to move on......than I'll take that too.

Sometimes I just post things here to share.

I won't say I've failed at everything. I have had some success----with me, and I no longer think I can't live without my H. I am having some MAJOR problems with self esteem right now. No matter how much my brain tells me this is all on him-----I still blame myself for not being good enough to want to bring him around.

Thanks Jack. I'll do my best to find some confidence and stop failing.