how many people have come back from a formal separation and ended up staying together?
Me.
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my boss just caught me crying at my desk and she said, why would you want to be married to someone who doesn't want to be married to you? i still haven't come up with a good answer for that...
Fukc her.
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i appreciate that, coach. you do have a longer history with your spouse, though...and you have children, which is not a factor for my H and i.
Your situation being different doesn't mean your outcome will be different. This is up to you, if you're looking for reasons to give up, listen to people like your boss, they are all over the place including your family and friends.
Finding a reason to do your best for as long as you can is sheer stubborness and determination on your part. And that is not a bad thing.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
