thanks talia...that is good advice. just this morning i was thinking, hmmm, well, with H out of the house i can FINALLY become a vegetarian and not have to buy meat with the groceries anymore. i guess i just never thought our marriage was all that bad. we have ups and downs like everyone, but to find out that he feels defeated because he just can't make me happy was kind of a surprise for me. we don't tend to say nasty things to one another, we don't fight very often over anything very major, we're just normal humans having normal problems. we entered back into MC after a few months of not needing to go back in November. We had to spend Christmas apart (due to us both having terminally ill grandparents, one in florida one in canada), and by the time New Year's rolled around, he was tired of trying to make things work. Coming to that decision so quickly seems rash to me...but i can't really do anything about it.
my boss just caught me crying at my desk and she said, why would you want to be married to someone who doesn't want to be married to you? i still haven't come up with a good answer for that...
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
i guess i just never thought our marriage was all that bad. we have ups and downs like everyone, but to find out that he feels defeated because he just can't make me happy was kind of a surprise for me. we don't tend to say nasty things to one another, we don't fight very often over anything very major, we're just normal humans having normal problems. we entered back into MC after a few months of not needing to go back in November. We had to spend Christmas apart (due to us both having terminally ill grandparents, one in florida one in canada), and by the time New Year's rolled around, he was tired of trying to make things work. Coming to that decision so quickly seems rash to me...but i can't really do anything about it.