separation = divorce?

[talia]

HI Try! Sorry you are here. I want to help you with something. My seperation has been wonderful for me. If H wants to go - let him go and focus on you. If things work out you will be the best you imaginable!! I've been free to deal with my issues - we all have them - and explore my feelings without his negativity. I hope H comes home and I miss him terrible, but this experience has been very liberating. I'll catch up on your sitch, but if thats the course he wants to take - embrace it and make it the best situation for you. Life gives you lemons - break out the tequila and throw yourself a party!

Hope this helps - I know its not what you want to hear. Hang in there!

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