Awest, I can't help but thinking ahead on some things. Years from now, when both daughters get married, I'm going to beg them, plead with them, to open up when they hit rocky stretches in the M.
A big thing with both W and I is that we didn't turn to anyone. Not each other or family members -- W told me once she didn't tell her mom anything that was going on between us.
We each tried to handle it on our own and began making assumptions and burying hurts until it was too late.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6