Need some help with moving forward.

[michaelCM]

Hoo boy. Up and down. Up and down. The roller coaster continues.
Last Friday night, W admitted to me that she saw OM last Tuesday. He came by her work. This was the day before I talked to her about ending contact with him. So, it had escalated from IMing to actually planning a meeting (and doing it).
The weekend was not very fun. Mostly me stewing about everything.

This morning, I logged on to her work email. There was a notification that OM had sent her a message on Facebook. I opened it. It was about the fact that they couldn't read each other's walls on FB, now that they have un-friended each other.

She went in to work for about an hour on Sunday, and that's when she must have sent him a message about it. (the notification I found was a reply from him.)

So, she can't IM him any more, but she certainly isn't going to be denied some form of contact with him. In the past, I know that he has posted statuses that were directed at her: subtle ones, based on shared experiences, etc. (Because of my investigations, I knew what he was referring to as well.)
If I bring this up, she'll just say that she wants to know that he is okay, etc.

<sigh>

Not doing so well today...