Ok so I have posted on here but not for quite awhile. My husband told me back in September that he loved me but wasn't in love with me. So about a month or so ago I put into practice a daily 180. I would go out and not tell him where I was, act happy at home even if he was grumpy etc.. And I did this for me too not just him it was 99% for myself. And I love how it made me feel. So about 5 days ago I get a text "I Love You" I haven't seen or heard those words in like 5 months. He then goes onto to say that he isn't ready to give up on us yet and it is worth trying to fight for our marriage. Being the way that I was at the time said I wasn't sure I wanted to save our marriage. He then proceeds to get upset about that. I think it was too that if he made some stupid comment about going elsewhere for sex I said go for it I didn’t cry, beg, plead anything to get him to stay home. So then the next day he says he doesn’t want to make it work he just felt like that day he did. I am not playing these games with him. I have no idea what to do I am still happy with myself and am upbeat but how to I decide what road to take, because even if I am nice to him he always comes back and says that I am the one that is to blame for where we are today with the communication.
