Thanks all for the advice and continued encouragement - I will try to post more often. It is hard between three kids, all with their own issues and needs, selling the house, job up in the air, and my marriage in the status that it is. I think I'm doing well with the 180 - I continue to avoid texts, calls, emails, conversations, and questions. I've been concentrating on my kids and that helps me a lot to ignore my wife and her world. I will write more as I find myself constantly monitoring if anyone answers my postings. Yesterday was my niece's bitrthday, so we were all there and I circulated myself to all the rooms talking and laughing with various family members (all on my wife's side), while steering clear of my wife and avoiding any discussion or conversation with her in it (normally without the 180 - I'd be gravitating towards her...). Everything went well, so I'll keep it up. Gotta get back to work - more later.....
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010
