Hi, Thanks to all of you that offered your feedback.. it is precious to me. I have made a decision...after weighing all the pieces carefully & thoughtfully.. with regards to D15 & myself most importantly.
I decided to stay on the path I'm on. D15 is thriving as things are in different ways than if I was there or she were here
.. our relationship while not what it was.. it is better in a lot of ways without the daily grind of mother/daughter drama & teen-age agnst.
I am thriving where I am... I love it here, I love my path. Are there days when it is cloudy,when I miss the 'familiar'? Yes, but it's just that.. familiar.. it's not a vacancy of an unmet need.
So thank you again my friends for offering your advice and wisdom, it does mean a great deal to me.
I will post more on the D update next hugs & peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.