I talked briefly about FaithfulH and Tomato on Saturday to my W. She had asked questions about them since we are all getting together in 2 weeks. When I mentioned that FaithfulH had peiced his M back together and Tomato was working on the same thing, W just got quiet. She did ask me to pray for her friends M again to which I said I will.
Dinner Saturday night was enjoyable. She did talk some about dinners with her friends. She always tells me that me and my friends need to go try this place or that place. At one poin I said why don't we go try one of those places sometime. Not sure why I said it. It didn't get much of a reaction out of her.
I wouldn't tell W you are even on this site...she will see it as you still putting pressure on her, doing whatever she asks, and weak by looking like you cannot live without her. Put yourself in her shoes with her selfish mindset. If you heard that your soon to be exhusband was on a DB site and talking to others about you..you would want to run for the hills!
Ditto on asking her to do ANYTHING with you! Get your own friends and go there.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
