Doesn't cutter always talk about the carrot and the stick? I feel like I'm all stick here...lol
Maybe I'm confused? Can't I detach and still "attempt" to be meeting her needs when the moments arise? I'm trying to lighten up when we do talk, show concern, etc.
Norse
I didn't communicate well. If "meeting her needs" means being the best that you can be...someone any woman would find attractive, then yes. If "meeting her needs" means rescuing her from the consequences of her decisions (money, car repairs, listening to her complain about OM), then no.
Interacting positively with her, while still maintaining your boundaries will be good for the relationship no matter what the outcome.
