Is it me? Or is it really everyone else? lol.

[BobbiJo]

Great suggestion SO2, Kev I have to steal that one.

Can't figure out why the same circumstances that seem overwhelming one day seem totally manageable the next. Gotta look into the triggers...

Kev I know you are a Cowboy fan but did you catch the game last night? Love overtime games, that keeps it interesting!

[K4D]

So, what are three things you are going to do today to make this a positive, productive day for YOU??

I am looking into taking some classes. I don't feel very positive today. I have one week left on my job and nothing has turned up yet.

I talked briefly about FaithfulH and Tomato on Saturday to my W. She had asked questions about them since we are all getting together in 2 weeks. When I mentioned that FaithfulH had peiced his M back together and Tomato was working on the same thing, W just got quiet. She did ask me to pray for her friends M again to which I said I will.

Dinner Saturday night was enjoyable. She did talk some about dinners with her friends. She always tells me that me and my friends need to go try this place or that place. At one poin I said why don't we go try one of those places sometime. Not sure why I said it. It didn't get much of a reaction out of her.

Oh and I have never had sushi, ever. I do know that I like cooked whitefish, salmon, etc but not raw. Any suggestions for a rookie if I go try it out?

Ask for the rolls that are fried and dip them in teriyaki sauce.

Kevin

[K4D]

Find out what your triggers are to hopless days.

I think some of it is that I am about to be out of a job. Part of it is loneliness. I am a bit stressed about things.

Kevin

[K4D]

Kev I know you are a Cowboy fan but did you catch the game last night? Love overtime games, that keeps it interesting!

I did catch the game. It was definitely a good one. So Manning will be playing his dad's former team in the superbowl.

Kevin

[Startingover2]

I talked briefly about FaithfulH and Tomato on Saturday to my W. She had asked questions about them since we are all getting together in 2 weeks. When I mentioned that FaithfulH had peiced his M back together and Tomato was working on the same thing, W just got quiet. She did ask me to pray for her friends M again to which I said I will.

Dinner Saturday night was enjoyable. She did talk some about dinners with her friends. She always tells me that me and my friends need to go try this place or that place. At one poin I said why don't we go try one of those places sometime. Not sure why I said it. It didn't get much of a reaction out of her.

I wouldn't tell W you are even on this site...she will see it as you still putting pressure on her, doing whatever she asks, and weak by looking like you cannot live without her. Put yourself in her shoes with her selfish mindset. If you heard that your soon to be exhusband was on a DB site and talking to others about you..you would want to run for the hills!

Ditto on asking her to do ANYTHING with you! Get your own friends and go there.

[Startingover2]

Find out what your triggers are to hopless days.

I think some of it is that I am about to be out of a job. Part of it is loneliness. I am a bit stressed about things.

Kevin

Totally understandable! Go read my posts from yesterday. I was feeling really down too!

[K4D]

I read your thread and commented on it SO2. I hope today is a better day for you.

Kevin

[Startingover2]

I read your thread and commented on it SO2. I hope today is a better day for you.

Kevin

Thank you. You aren't alone. Having M issues on top of work, kids, $$ and just life make things seem hopeless sometimes. Try and reshift your focus onto things you CAN control.

[K4D]

I think I am honestly scared about being without a job.

Kevin

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