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Originally Posted By: Tomato
But as I said earlier it is imperative that you find much much more comfort in your own skin.

Make finding an internal peace that is dependent on no other earthly being and developing a love for yourself a solid goal for yourself.

I have resolved that life ebbs and flows all around personal confidence. Harness it my brother. Ask the Lord for His assistance on this matter.



Sound wisdom. Thanks.


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Originally Posted By: Tomato

I have resolved that life ebbs and flows all around personal confidence. Harness it my brother. Ask the Lord for His assistance on this matter.



And this one bears repeating.


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Originally Posted By: Tomato

I have resolved that life ebbs and flows all around personal confidence. Harness it my brother. Ask the Lord for His assistance on this matter.



And this one bears repeating.

Absolutely!


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
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Having dinner right now with W and my girls at some sushi place called hibashi. It is an interesting place


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
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2nd Bomb: 09/08
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D dismissed 06/09/09
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How was your weekend?


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Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
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It wasn't the greatest. I was awake all night saturday night. I slept a few hours yesterday.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
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It wasn't the greatest. I was awake all night saturday night. I slept a few hours yesterday.

Kevin


Just insomnia or something happen?


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Just insomnia or something happen?


Just felt hopeless.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
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2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
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D dismissed 06/09/09
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Sorry, Kev. I hate feeling hopeless...

So, what are three things you are going to do today to make this a positive, productive day for YOU??


Oh and I have never had sushi, ever. I do know that I like cooked whitefish, salmon, etc but not raw. Any suggestions for a rookie if I go try it out?


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Sushi is the best! Love it! Need to try it BobbiJo.

Think positive Kevin. Like Bobbi said...what are some things you can do today for YOU? I was having a real down day yesterday too. Refocusing today. I think my bad days come when I get overtired and overwhelmed. Find out what your triggers are to hopless days.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
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Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
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