I would say, yes, if it helps you with detachment, that part is a positive.
As for the rest.....ewwww
But I will say that hot and heavy rarely=love of your life.
When my H and I were dating in college, I had a 6 week fling with a guy at my college. Sad, but true. I couldn't wait to spend time with him, found excuses to see him, etc etc. There was no texting or email then (mid 90s) but had there been, look out!
Funny thing is, within 6 weeks I somehow realized he was not all that I thought he was, I swung the full 180 where I was grossed out at the thought of kissing him and avoided him like the plague for the 3 months after that until he graduated...
Just saying it may not wind up being all that she thinks it is...
Love that song by the way. Keith Urban has some amazing stuff!
Sorry you read those letters, hard to forget that stuff once its in your brain.
Sad, but true. I couldn't wait to spend time with him, found excuses to see him, etc etc. There was no texting or email then (mid 90s) but had there been, look out!