Doesn't cutter always talk about the carrot and the stick? I feel like I'm all stick here...lol
Maybe I'm confused? Can't I detach and still "attempt" to be meeting her needs when the moments arise? I'm trying to lighten up when we do talk, show concern, etc.
Norse
Yes, the first step to reconciliation is getting rid of all the negative feelings. They need to come out though. Hence the need for the spew raincoat. I was always looking for opportunities to connect. The key is loving detachment.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
