I think you are right, you should detach from him. You don't have any need to be talking to him. All it's going to do is draw you back into unnecessary drama.
Definitely need to do that. I get the feeling H wants to talk to me so that he can feel better about what happened. He has a constant need for reassurance and to feel all warm and fuzzy.
Someday I want to marry again and I need to clear my mind and heart for a new relationship. (Not for a long while though!!) But if I never begin this process of detaching, I will never be able to heal so that I can be good for someone else.
M:36 H:36 M 3 Y T 8 Y No kids Bomb 6/30/08 PA I filed 9/29/09 D final 1/22/2010
