mb28 -
Look up your state laws and guidelines - I have found that where I live does not even accept legal seperation. Not that my H and I are evn close to talking about the legal "stuff" yet.

You need to know what your rights are - how long does a seperation have to be, protect yourself and your children, etc. I just looked quickly on google for Utah - and it looks like if there is a no fault the seperation must be for 3 YEARS for NO FAULT-- WOW!! http://www.divorcesource.com/info/divorcelaws/utah.shtml

LNG
Me - 37
H - 42
S - 19
D - 16
D - 14
M - 20 years
S - 1/11/2010
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1