Another quick question, I have always been pretty good around Valentine's day, I planned on getting the kids a small gift but in a way i feel i would be wrong not to get the W anything. Of course we have not seperated or even decided on D or S yet.
You'll have to judge for yourself when you get home; but getting something for Valentine's Day could be seen as pursuing, especially if she doesn't get you anything in return.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement