OP-

I am so glad you were able to spend time with your W and she peeked out. I agree with Upside about trying to keep those expectations at zero. Frankly, I think it is harder when they start to make appearances like that. I see so much more of my old H peeking through now that it is hard not to keep those expectations where they belong. He seems more like himself, so he should do the the things he did before (so it seems). BUT he is not yet there and still has one foot firmly planted in MLC land so I have to keep remembering that and just let him be. No pressure, no expectations. I can't say my expectations are totally at zero, but I try to keep them as low as I can.

I hope things progress for you. In the meantime, try to keep your focus off of your W.:)


"Endurance is a testament of love."

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