Originally Posted By: flowmom


At some point, though, H is going to say: "I want to proceed with mediation". What do I say then?


Respond with something like this.

I have a great deal to think about right now. Let me get back to you.

Or with this.

Mediation/Divorce is not what I want. I see many other options available. However,

I will not stand in your way.

Then let him do all the work.

Me & H: 33 yrs
S: 4 & 6
D: 2
M: 9 yrs
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
SEPARATED: 9/09
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