Ring On or Ring Off????

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I will get the lawyer. He now wants an "agreed to" divorce. No need for a mediator he says. From what I've read it's a process in which he will not have to do much at all, assuming he doesn't have a problem with what is drawn up. What work is there for him to do? That's what I don't understand. If I get the lawyer to protect me----to identify what I should get, etc. and get that in writing. I am doing all the work----he then just has to sign off on it??

I don't know. I'm in the process of assembling all of the documents that the lawyer I talked to several months ago said she needs to evaluate my situation, and will go from there. I wasn't all that crazy about her all business like attitude, but I'm sure I won't like anyone else either. My C gave me 3 to choose from and this was the only one that would work.

Many emotional emails sent over the weekend. My last from him: "I'll call a psychologist to see why I'ms so f**&^% up. You call a lawyer." I followed that with several more that were not replied to. In one I told him he should take his ring off --- because it obviously hasn't meant anything to him for a long time. He dropped off kids last night and yes, it is off.