He said he is done!!

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I have started a journal - that really helps.

I got up this morning and of course the first thing that came to me was H again... this time it was different - I have come to the conculsion that we do need time apart - not saying that I want a D - not saying I am happy with the seperation - but this is what needs to happen now for the both of us. I can not get healthy with H here. I have to focus on me being happy and not making him happy! WOW - never thought I would say that!