Gno, you wife WAS probably all you decribed as "ideal". You were probably her ideal of a H. That's why you married, no? Dont forget that.
Thanks, I won't and haven't.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
I really hope you are ok with this and as strong as you sound.
Thank you once again K.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
Posted this to luvless by accident!!! Duh!!
LOL. Don't worry.
I'm glad that you and H have gone to MC. Your MC sounds great and seems to know what she is doing. Soften your heart a little sister. That your H is trying is very important. I know you are carrying a lot of hurt and resentment (and justifiably so) but please try let a little of it go. Remember the saying that it takes two to tango? Well... it kind of applies here too. The road has two directions and to meet both of you must be walking towards each other. If one is chasing the other the two of you will never meet halfway. Does that make sense?
(I'll post this in your thread too... in case you miss it in my quiet corner of the world)
