feel like giving up - talk to me!

[S.T. _I Made It!]

Wed night he came home a little late - I called he didn't answer

quit calling. remember, stop chasing. if the kids call, then so be it, but don't ask them to.

his trips, of course he is not comfortable, but this is his "easy way out" to try to work out his feelings. He's probably also using this time to see if he really loves you or not.

Of course, love is not a feeling, but WAS's do NOT get this. they are living on feelings, so you have to use your actions to show him WHY he should want to stay home.

this is what G has been telling you.

that's why you stop chasing him, be a duck's back, GAL, and start living your life for YOU, not for HIM. Start having fun!


your next goal is to act like you just had a great day when he calls you next, not in a vengeful, "haha I'm having fun and your not", type of way, but a genuine, "wow this is such a great day! the weather is great! the kids have been great! I hope your having a great time too, the kids are excited to see you when you get back! okay, gotta go! see ya soon!" kind of way.

you are wanting to LEAD him back to the home, and picking out his faults, or being upset by his actions, or being depressed will NOT lead him back, and will PUSH him further away.

this is where you have to fake it till you make it.

So what fun thing are you doing this week???