I just went through 11 pages and thought - there's probably much more that you didn't even say!
Yes there is.
Originally Posted By: onthemountaintop
Do you think that you or she might change your mind before the final D date?
Yes, that is a possibility.
Originally Posted By: onthemountaintop
If so, maybe begin with a peace offering that is against what is often encouragedd - give her a book that speaks to your needs that haven't been met. If she reads it and can connect with it, maybe she'll be able to show something of you that you've been missing.
No. I don't believe in 4th hand communication. A book is good, but only when BOTH parties are sincerely committed to the path of reconciliation. I don't believe in letting a book do all your talking for you.
