hey, I think that when you FINALLY text him back, this isn't going to stop him texting you. it's like that little kid that keeps asking "mommy, please can I have it" and you keep saying "no", and then finally after the 10th time you give in and say yes.

I would suggest, that if you want it to only be about baby, then stick to that. If he asks a question about baby, then answer politely, and if it isn't, then perhaps don't answer at all (but you should tell him your boundary first).

have you already told him you are not going to text him about things that are unrelated to baby? if not, then tell him politely that "I appreciate your concern for baby, however I would like to ask you to no longer text me if it is not about her, because I will no longer respond to those texts. Thank you for respecting my wishes on that."

otherwise, he's going to keep sending the texts because he knows your going to respond eventually. and if you don't want him to blow up at you for you ignoring him, then I would suggest to send him that mesg I posted above. I would suggest that either way actually, so you have stated your boundary to him, and then you will stick to it and show him that you have respect for yourself and that he should respect your boundaries.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."