The only way I would even CONSIDER letting him back into my life is if he has made a demonstrated effort to get control of his and shows that he is interested in ME, not the trappings of our old lifestyle.
Otherwise I am just his plan B and I know I deserve better than to be plan B.
I feel this way too. We deserve so much more than crumbs and maybe they need to see that we are interested not in their crumbs for them to gain respect for us again.
