I deeply need encouragement! This is incredibly hard. This past weekend my husband lied to me several times. I don't know how you guys do this. He is heartless and continues to blame everything on me yet has not proceeded with the D. I know he doesn't want to and not because he wants me but because he doesn't want to deal with going thru a D.
I have gone dark which seems to make him angry which he then starts using my daughter as a pawn to get to me. I know some of you said they get angry at first when you go dark but then what can happen?! Please let me know your experiences. I am really hurting.
I have to have a medical procedure in a couple of days and I think I am going to ask him to contact his attorney (if he hasn't by that time) after I have recovered.
I just can't believe this is the same man I was married to. My heart is broken and it is hard to deal with the rejection. I never would have thought he would treat me in such an unkind way!
Any words of encouragement or advice would be deeply appreciated!
