definitely don't do that. I know you want him out of your life, but unless he was a drug dealer, or someone who was physically abusive, or someone that would hurt your daughter, you have to think about your daughter on this one. And IMHO, it is in her best interest that you help them have a good R.
But, I know you need a break from him, that's okay, take it. take care of yourself, you've worked yourself so hard and you deserve a time out.
yes, I hope that your kids unfriend him too, as a statement that they don't approve of his R with this person. Now, your exh was like their dad before right? how close where they during that time?
I remember after my parents D'd and I was 16 or 17 I believe and my dad had GF's, one right after another. the man can't be alone. and he would live with these women. finally I told him I wouldn't be going over anymore because I did not approve. I especially did not approve my younger siblings going over while he was sinning in God's eyes and teaching them by his actions that it was okay. of course the excuse is always, but we can't afford to live separately, blah blah. anyways, it was a good convo, we both cried, and I didn't go over anymore, and he didn't kick her out, but at least I said my peace and stood for my boundary.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
