Notwithstanding that your H has issues he has to address, do you think there is anything you can do to help support him, validate his self-image as a provider / source of support for the family? Do you think it could help talking to him honestly about this (but keeping it as a separate issue from the transparency)?
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
