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[OnceBurdened]

You telling the W that you need time to think was a good idea too, it really puts forth the fear of loss idea in her head, it reinforces that there are consequences for specific actions.

Thanks Robx,I'm trying - maybe to hard see below-

So I left last nite as planned & within ten minutes she started texting.

Here is the Text word for word from her- "I'll take kids to school- clean here, organize, finish packing my stuff so I can get out as soon as I can- I think a job will happen soon- i'll take any job just to hurry the process for u - I promise- I now realize how miserable I make u- I clearly disgust u and it clearly shows in the way u look at me - I know if I am not gone very soon u will hate me in no time at all. If I can somehow at least salvage that I think I will be lucky - u belong here and deserve to be here - not me. I wont text or call again as u requested - i promise- will u b here tommorrow? Let me know when and I will go somewhere - I'm going to bed my heart is very heavy right now."

Is the fear of loss sinking in or she still shifting blame to walk out or what?