Hi GW, I would not worry about that either. My H started almost trying to push me towards other men, especially an old HS BF (who is married). He tells me now that he was to both appease his conscience and wanting me to be happy. Now that the fog is lifting, he admits it was ridiculous and also that he would have a hard time seeing me with someone else. Now that we are piecing, the tables are turning and he is the one afraid of losing me. So, please be reassured that it is all part of the fog mentality. In their confusion and self-absorption, they try to find ways to justify their own actions hoping it will minimize hurt to you and the kids.
If you can, try to minimize the R talks now and just focus on being the best GW you can be. Be calm, cool, confident, fun... keep doing 180's, making little changes.
