You mentioned to me the other day that when you are positive, feeling good, and happy that she is down. Then when she is positive you are down.
Do you not see the role YOU play in this??
Of course when you are down she is going to feel positive.
You are SHOWING her that the decisions she is making are the right ones.
Anytime you show her any negativity and by that I mean....
Reasoning with her or being way too open about everything.
Being short or cold.
Being inconsistent.
The list can go on and on.....
You are giving her everything she needs to say..."see this is why."
Stop making the same mistakes. Stop thinking that this woman is your wife of old. Stop relating to her in the same old ways. Stop feeding this vicious cycle.
Start placing your focus on you and your children and nothing more. THAT IS ALL YOU CAN DO.
