Well not to help him sort out his feelings but just listen and validate.
Not to give him ideas what to do in the day but be positive about what he has done during the day.
To see the good things he has done and not the things he hasnt done (old habit needs to die)
To fill his LL's of Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch. In turn he will fill mine as they are the same lol! So cuddle time is something not to be broken.
Not to find him places to do his new found hobbies but encourage him to look.
Cant think of anymore at the moment but thats a good start for him now maybe I need to have a look at my 180's and give them a dust over!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
Ok, we're in the same non-fixing boat. See my thread. Different sitch, same idea. H has had a really bad turn the last few days with lots of things breaking, etc. It's my urge to run in and fix it all, man it's hard not to. We can do this, just like with ODP = shall we call it ODF? (Operation Don't Fix).
Forgot to add my good validation today, H has a rotten job to do today so when he txt to say he was waiting a call back I sent him hugs as I know its a nasty thing to have to do, the old me would just have been too balistic to care!
Honestly learning to breathe, take stock and validate the good bits has changed my life!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
