Praying for Light at the end of the Tunnel

[kjensen]

Hey Virgnia!
If your talking about the R talk over H joinng match.com you're spot on. Stepped right into that one.

I guess I'm not seeing too many other R conversations except regarding divorce details-can't really avoid those.

If you're thinking of something else that I'm missing-let me know. I know mentally I'm not trying to get H back. Emotionally I'm hurting, but I'm not pursuing or initiating contact.

One area I could improve upon is staying dim when H contacts me about anything but the divorce stuff or the kids. Haven't done that yet because I know H's response will be anger/hurt "Are we not talking now?"..and I'm not sure how to respond then. No response right?

I guess I've been trying to keep things friendly going through this divorce, but since H twists everything anyway it doesn't seem to help much.

We need a Divorce-busting guide to actually getting a divorce!

I'll try to have a stronger backbone!