H4L said: I kept myself from saying things would be better if he'd move home - we could afford to fix everything and we could help each other. Obviously this is not what H wants and thank god I'm DBing enough to not say anything
I struggle with this one too. The solution to some financial and other material problems that have been caused by our breakup are so blatantly obvious. In every way both of us are worse off because the choice was made not to go to MC this summer. With no end in sight! It's hard not to mention the obvious elephant in the room that separation and divorce have caused things to fall apart further. Congratulations on not saying so.
