Flowmom, will the MARRIED male friend's WIFE know you are going with him? How will youknow that he will tell her?

When I said this is how it all starts, I meant the "just friends" part of inappropriate relationships that start with crossing boundaries. And you can say "I am just being platonic, chill out" ok so then his wife should be fine with it.
BTW if he's not married, then I do need to chill out! :-)

And my sitch "hasn't worked for me" YET... in process...
And good job staying busy if you have to be in the house with him while he's there.

Last edited by newmama; 01/25/10 02:24 PM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004