You should treat your wife as well as you would treat any family friend or acquaintance who is doing you a favor. I don't think that a polite hug and "hello" is out of question.

But SD is right, focus on your kids. Save the R talk for later.

And an early "welcome home" to you. smile

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."