I know you're having a tough time, I'm sorry for that.
What I don't know is when you're finally going to listen and believe what we are all telling you.
YOU CAN'T REASON WITH HER.
SHE WILL NOT LISTEN TO YOU.
YOU ARE WAY TOO CAUGHT UP IN ALL OF THIS.
Stop calling her, stop texting her and when she calls you, be nice, keep it short and sweet and STAY ON THE SUBJECT AT HAND. ...nothing more.
This is all basic stuff that we have been over and over on this thread.
I know you have good intentions but what you are doing is making things worse. You have to stop and stay the course. You don't do this for a week and expect her to all of a sudden snap out of this.
Your only option is to let her go and focus on the CHANGES YOU NEED TO MAKE. That's all you can do.
