Thanks for the book recommendation, I will have to check it out. I would not use 3rd party anyway, but the rest of the counselors advice was solid in my opinion.
Last night I was so good, went to bed at 9:30 to get ready for boot camp this morning.
Then Dan started texting. He hasn't done that in a long time.
20 Yes TWENTY texts in a row. Basically a letter in text form. Man he is so miserable....his world is crashing down around him from all sides but he is the only one who can save himself.
It sucks but at the same time it makes it pretty clear that this is not about me at all even when he tries to make it about me.
Also for those who think the walk-away gets to 'win' by going on to live a happy wonderful life, don't bet on it. They have to live with their life choices and even if they don't admit it I am sure that eats most of them up on some level.
I know I did all I could within my power, made mistakes but hey I learned from them which is more than he can say...
OK two hour late start for snow/wind so I am going back to bed!
And I lost 1 inch last week, not much but it is a start. No weight loss yet but apparenlty I was not eating enough?? Go figure
