Both of you listen to me I am getting a big 2x4 and hitting both of you. This is your new RULE. It is IMPORTANT. KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT! Eyes and ears open. No texting, e-mailing, talking to your H. When you don't do what I am saying what has been the result? Divorce talks???? If you want to get divorced then don't listen to me and keep doing what you are doing. Thats it thats the 1 rule. Start doing it right now. PLEASE.....