((((Aver))), I'm sorry you are hurting. I know how badly that sucks to get one of those emails.
It's so hard to believe how they can act like this, after being w someone for so many years. You are handling it with dignity & class, no matter how low he goes. That is the very hardest thing to do, but it is the best thing to do. You can hold your head high.
When he says "moving fwd" on the house does that mean he wants to sell it? Is it in both your names? Sorry if that info was in your thread, I can't remember. Well, reply when you feel up to it. I will be here for you.
You totally have my support - I'll check back on you. Sending lots of hugs your way. I'll keep you in my prayers. (((Aver))))