flowmom, Thank you so much for the reply. I will defiently try your suggestions next time. These conversations with my H get me so emotional, and that causes me to backslide.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10