I hate talking to my H. He always traps me into D talk. He wants to start looking for a lawyer this week. I told him that it's only been 7 weeks, can't we slow down. He said we just needed to get this all over with as soon as possible so we both could move on and be happy.
I told him that I'm giving him space, and would like to wait before we make any D decisions. He said what he always says, “I can’t come back from this, I’ve told you that a million times”. I hate hearing that, he always says it every time we talk.
I feel like I’m fighting a losing battle. I don’t want to give up any hope of reconciliation yet, but I’m not sure what to do with him pushing the D.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
